What 8 Bloggers Wish They Had Known Before Starting A Blog
I’m so thankful for how much my blog has grown in the last 3+ years, but I didn’t always have all of the answers (and I still don’t!). Unfortunately, there’s no “how-to” handbook for blogging and a lot of it is trial and error. We’re all just trying new things to see what works best for our brand. However, I always think of how nice it would’ve been to have someone to answer my simplest questions when I first started hillheady.com in 2016. That’s why I gathered a handful of my favorite bloggers who know a thing or two to share their own advice on getting started. This group inspires me every day and pushes me to be my best blogger self! So this one is for all of you who are wanting to start a blog, but not really sure where to even begin. My best advice? Just do it! There’s no time like the present.
- Camille of Charmed by Camille: Don’t put all of your eggs in one basket, but pick your focus areas and grow over time. I started my blog and really wanted to grow my Instagram following, so I worked on only those two for 3 years. Your blog is the only thing YOU own, so as things change in the social atmosphere (ahem, algorithm) it can impact your blog. Now that I have a pretty steady follower growth on Instagram, I am branching out to other platforms and types of content like Pinterest, video, etc. It can be really overwhelming at first so pick priorities and then expand your pond a little at a time.
- Michael and Ian of I Love That For You: You will feel ridiculous or self-conscious taking photos at first. Get over it. You’re doing what you love. The sooner you embrace it, the sooner you’ll capture amazing shots truly capturing the story you want to share. Accept your vulnerability. It took four months for Michael to have enough courage to post a picture of us kissing. The response was pure love and support. Your vulnerability is your strength. Don’t say yes to everything. Sometimes you might have too much on your plate. Sometimes a partnership or collaboration doesn’t feel genuine at that moment. Politely say no but foster the relationship for when the time is right.
- Tomi of GoodTomiCha: I wish I knew that I should really just create content that I enjoy creating. I’ve lost a lot of time because I wanted to shop where the top bloggers were shopping or match their entire aesthetic. That whole time I could’ve been creating an audience that was invested in ME and not a false online identity. I’m happy that now I’m confident enough to just be myself and share whatever the heck I want!
- Dana of The Champagne Edit: Honestly, I wish I knew what blogging and the digital space would become (I started in 2012). You obviously can’t predict the future, but I wish I would have taken it more seriously right off the bat — I wish I learned basic HTML from the start, played around in Photoshop more, and found a niche in order to build a community early on. I recommend this to a lot of people who want to start a blog!
- Alex of Adored by Alex: I’ve been blogging for 8.5 years, with 3.5 of those being full-time. So I’ve been around the block a time or two! It sounds super cliche, but I wish I had believed everyone who told me to be confident and go for it, whatever it might be. To not let my hang-ups, such as posing for photos in front of a crowd of people, or to not do something because other girls weren’t doing it – because people are visiting your blog, or becoming a steady reader for you, not for anyone else!
- Laura of Louella Reese: Probably first and foremost, the importance of being consistent and having a brand. This is something I truly didn’t learn until 2+ years into blogging. Now I know that is it is hands down two of the most important things in making your blog a business and a success. Consistency on when you post on your site, when you share to social media, and the topics you cover. Yes, switching things up a bit or adding additional topics is great but always staying consistent and true to your brand and what it represents. Also, it is okay to say no! I definitely didn’t feel I could say no to brands or partnerships at first. I felt I need to take everything that came my way. Now, I have learned the importance of turning down brands and collaborations that just don’t fit me personally or don’t fit my brand. I think others really respect you for doing that and a lot of times, the contact that reached out to you will really respect that as well.
- Amanda of A Glam Lifestyle: Crazy to think, I’ve been blogging now for just over 5 years! If I could go back and tell myself a few things, the first would be to find your support system. Like with any passion project or business venture, it’s important to build a network of like-minded individuals who can give you advice and support you when you get overwhelmed. You have to be your own hype girl! Also, not all of your friends, significant others or even your parents may understand what it is that you’re doing or support it as much as you hoped. That’s okay! The other is – never underestimate the power of Google! It was only in the last 6 months that I hired someone to help with my Pinterest and now my SEO. Prior to that I Googled my way to the answers and watched countless YouTube videos to improve my website functionality. YOU CAN DO THIS!
- Madison of Musings by Madison: To my surprise, blogging is not a traditional 9-5 job. Work hours can be more like: 8am-10pm (sometimes later!) Monday through Sunday, including holidays and vacations with no real days off. I had no idea how much time I would need to dedicate to it or the skills I’d need to garner along the way. Who knew that so much went on behind wearing pretty outfits, publishing Instagram posts and a few weekly blog posts?! It requires constant early mornings/late nights, endless amounts of planning and creativity… the list goes on. So creating a schedule and figuring out a way to balance it all earlier on is something I wish I had known sooner. It definitely would’ve saved me a lot of wasted time and stress!
Laura Botkin says
These are all great tips and def wish I had known about them before I started blogging as well!
Hillary Conheady says
Yes, agreed!!
xo, Hillary
Laura Leigh says
LOVE LOVE LOVE this so much and am so appreciative that you included me!!! Also, love that snap of us so much. Need to recreate stat!
xo Laura Leigh
http://www.louellareese.com
Hillary Conheady says
I agree!! Thank you for being a part of this!
xo, Hillary
dana mannarino says
Thank you SO much for including me in this post today! Such great advice from the other gals!
The Champagne Edit
Hillary Conheady says
Of course, Dana! Thank YOU!
xo, Hillary
Liz says
Love this post so much! I can agree 100% with all of this. There’s so much I wish I would’ve known too!
Hillary Conheady says
Yes same!!
xo, Hillary
Greta says
Such good advice! I wish I had known all of this when I started my blog four years ago!
Hillary Conheady says
Me too, girl!!
xo, Hillary
Laura Adney says
Such a great post! These are valid points as a blogger lol so on point
Stephanie says
Love so many of these ladies and what they had to say about blogging. It’s ALL true, and I agree with them on almost everything. There’s been so much I’ve learned over the 3+ years I’ve been blogging, and so much I know I still have to learn!
Lyddiegal says
Always fun to hear from other bloggers! I’ve been blogging for quite some time, but I’m always looking for ways to improve. Thanks for the insight!
Chic on the Cheap
Sarah Lindner says
Loved reading this – I totally agree with everything!
Xoxo Sarah
Jamaria Johnson says
Great advice and I’m bookmarking this post to read again later. Thanks for sharing! xo
Hillary Conheady says
Yay! Thanks, girl!
xo, Hillary
Kristina says
I agree with SO many of these!! Blogging has definitely changed over the years!
Lindsay says
I wish I knew every one of these before I started too! I’m also still working on a few haha! Loved this post
roxy says
Love the honesty and vulnerability these ladies shared! It’s so true, I’ve been blogging for 11 years and taking photos STILL can feel awkward in crowded spots lol. But I wouldn’t have it any other way. Great post!
Sarah Lindner says
This is such a good (& true!) post! I relate so much to this but also know that it’s all about learning as you go! xoxo sarah
Tanvi Rastogi says
I love this post. All of them are great tips and views. What I have learned after 15 years of blogging is don’t be afraid to mix it up. Your views on things might change, and you will change with them and so will your blog. And that’s the beauty of it all. 🙂
❥ tanvii.com
Mollie says
So many great tips on starting a blog! Thanks for sharing all of this advice!
xx Mollie
Rachel says
Oh my gosh, all of these tips are SO good and they’re all so true! It’s really too bad we didn’t know what blogging would turn in to when we started so early on 😉
Rachel
http://www.hello-her.com
Lizzie says
These are such great tips! I definitely agree with being consistent and having a unique brand. I would also add to always be growing and learning new skills/trying new things!
Lizzie
http://www.lizzieinlace.com
Lydia says
Yes! Such wish words. I especially love what Camille said. Having your own space is very important!
Stephanie says
There are so many factors to consider when beginning to blog. I probably did more research than most do these days before even purchasing a domain, but after four years, I’m still learning every single day – and I don’t think I’ll ever quit learning. It’s an ever-changing platform!
Anna English says
Aw man! I love all the girls you used for this post and what they shared.
Regine Karpel says
Truth.
http://www.rsrue.blogspot.com
Caitlin says
So many incredible tips! Amazing job!
Camille says
Can we all give it up for Laura Leigh’s long hair in the photo at the bottom of this post?!
Camille
https://charmedbycamille.com/
Hillary Conheady says
I know!! So long and beautiful!!
xo, Hillary
Caila Quinn says
Love how you collaborated with so many ladies on this!! I could not agree more on the tips of consistency!!
Rach says
Love this post and totally agree with what everyone said!
http://www.rdsobsessions.com
Adaleta Avdic says
Love that you brought in your girls to answer this question. It’s interesting how it varies for everyone. No one ever has the same advice!
kileen says
all of these points are so true and i so wish i knew some of these when i first started!
kileen
cute & little
Jaimie Tucker says
I can relate to so many of these tips. The biggest being how odd of a schedule blogging can be, and it really is a 24/7 endeavour. Thanks hun! xo http://www.jaimietucker.com
Sarah Lindner says
Been blogging for a few years now and couldn’t agree more with you ladies! I also wish I would have invested more serious time when I started, not realizing how big it has become! xoxo, Sarah
Stephanie says
It’s fun to see what other bloggers wish they’d known before starting. I’ve been blogging for nearly 5 years (full-time from the start, shockingly enough), and I’m still learning tons every day! I hope some beginner bloggers – and old timers – benefit from this!
Lizzie says
Love this post so much! It always great to get the perspective of other bloggers! I agree with it all of it 🙂
Lizzie
http://www.lizzieinlace.com
Mariah Rickard says
These are such great tips! I’ve been blogging for 7 years and haven’t grown as much as I would have wanted. I wish someone would have told me to take it more seriously from the beginning.
XO
https://www.moosmusing.com
Makeup Muddle says
I love reading posts like these, and they’re so helpful for those that want to start a blog. I wish I’d known how much work blogging involved haha! I definitely underestimated how much time it’d take, but I wouldn’t change it for the world! xo
Makeup Muddle